Self-Neglect

Too Much Service

What is Self-Neglect?

Excessive service manifests as giving beyond your capacity, ignoring your own needs, unable to say no, and martyrdom. This unbalanced state leads to burnout and resentment.

Signs of Self-Neglect

  • Giving beyond your capacity
  • Ignoring your own needs
  • Unable to say no
  • Martyr complex
  • Burning out from service

Consequences

  • Burnout and exhaustion
  • Resentment toward those you serve
  • Health problems
  • Enabling dependency in others

Moving Toward Balance

To develop healthy service:

  • Care for yourself too
  • Learn to say no
  • Serve from fullness, not emptiness
  • Set healthy boundaries